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I set standards for myself that I would never expect another person to meet
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Work can be complete, correct and useful, yet it still does not feel finished
⚠️
One small mistake can make me question my ability, intelligence or reliability
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I see outcomes as excellent or failed, with very little room between the two
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I compare the real result with an ideal version that may not be realistically possible
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As soon as I reach one goal, my mind raises the standard or finds the next weakness
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I mentally rehearse conversations, tasks or decisions so I will not be caught unprepared
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I focus on the one flaw while discounting everything that went well
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I feel unable to act until I am certain that I have chosen the best or safest option
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Praise gives me brief relief, but I quickly explain it away or think people missed my flaws
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I delay starting because the first attempt may not match the standard in my head
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I spend more time planning, researching or organising than doing the actual task
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I rewrite simple emails, messages or documents several times before sending them
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I keep checking completed work even when another review is unlikely to improve it
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I take much longer than other people because every detail feels equally important
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I avoid unfamiliar opportunities where I may look inexperienced or perform only adequately
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I abandon a task after an imperfect start rather than continue with something that feels flawed
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I struggle to delegate because I worry the work will not be done in the right way
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I repeatedly ask for reassurance but still doubt the answer once the relief passes
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I feel driven to correct, organise or redo things that other people consider acceptable
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I feel anxious before feedback because even a normal correction can feel threatening
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Mistakes bring shame or embarrassment that feels much larger than the situation
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I feel exhausted from maintaining standards that never allow me to switch off
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Rest creates guilt because I believe I should be using the time more productively
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Achievement brings relief that I avoided failure, not genuine pride or satisfaction
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My self-worth changes according to how productive, admired or successful I feel that day
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Comparison makes me feel behind even when I am making reasonable progress
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I fear disappointing parents, partners, teachers, clients or managers more than I express
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I look capable and composed while privately feeling that I may be exposed as inadequate
🗯️
I use harsh self-criticism because I worry kindness will make me lazy or careless
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I overprepare for meetings, presentations or reviews and still feel unready
📚
I create detailed study plans but delay studying when I cannot follow them perfectly
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Deadlines become crises because I keep improving the work instead of deciding it is complete
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Ordinary decisions become draining because I keep comparing every possible consequence
💢
Changes in plans or other people doing things differently can make me tense or irritable
❤️
I become critical, controlling or disappointed when a relationship does not match my expectations
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I say yes, overdeliver or hide my needs because I want to be seen as dependable and easy to value
🎨
I avoid hobbies, exercise or creative activities when I cannot do them consistently or well
🌙
My mind reviews unfinished tasks and mistakes at night, making it difficult to settle or sleep
🤕
Pressure may show up as muscle tension, headaches, stomach discomfort or feeling constantly on edge
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Even during time off, I remain mentally connected to work, study or responsibilities
🎉
I struggle to enjoy progress because I am already noticing what should happen next